Football is a sport that is made beautiful, especially when a team bonds together to be greater than the sum of its parts. One key aspect of such endeavours is communication -- something that Blue Tigresses midfielder Indumathi Kathiresan lays a lot of stress on.

“It’s all about communicating on the field to fill in the missing areas, when you’re playing in the midfield,” Indumathi said to www.the-aiff.com “People mistake it to be pointing out the mistakes of others. But it’s not about that. If I don’t do it, they may not know what they’ve done wrong, and vice versa.”

“When they (my teammates) look into my eyes on the pitch, they should know that even if they make an error, I’ll give my life to come and help them; and when I look into their eyes, I too want to see the same. That’s what playing for the country is all about. That’s what football is all about,” she exclaimed.

While the 27-year-old midfield general stresses the importance of communicating with your teammates, it was not too long back that she herself found communication one of the hardest parts of football.

The daughter of daily wage workers from Cuddalore, Tamil Nadu, Indumathi Kathiresan completed her education in government schools with the help of scholarships, balancing both studies and sports. However, when she was called up to a month-long National Team trials camp, the young midfielder found that she could not properly communicate with any of her teammates.

“I had then got called up for a National Team trial among 50 girls. But I was the only one from Tamil Nadu. No other girl spoke Tamil, and I could not speak either Hindi or English, so I could not really communicate with anyone,” she recalled. “Not being able to speak to anyone around you for more than a month is really difficult.”“Sometimes I used to cry on the phone to my mother, and she would tell me to come back, but I knew I couldn’t do that. I didn’t understand much of what others said to me, I just smiled and nodded and kept going,” she said with a laugh.“I’ve had to change a lot. All the coaches told me that I need to be able to speak with others, because football is a sport where communication is essential. So I started to learn, and now I can manage,” she recalled.It is often said that difficult experiences breed tougher characters, and that’s exactly what the midfielder is, within the team. So much so, that she has made it her own effort to help others surpass such language barriers that she had earlier faced.“Now, when I see others coming into the team from Tamil Nadu, I try to help them in these matters. I don’t want them to face the same communication problems that I used to face,” Indumathi averred. “That’s how you move forward together.”

‘DIDN’T THINK I’D COME THIS FAR’

Now a Sub Inspector in Tamil Nadu Police, Indumathi would never have imagined that she would one day have gone on to play in a tournament of the stature of the AFC Women’s Asian Cup for the Blue Tigresses.

“I’m 27 now. If you’d have asked me back in school or college whether I’d still be playing football till this age, I would probably have said, no. But I’m thankful that I can still do it. And I’m even more grateful that I’m getting to play the Asian Cup on home soil,” exclaimed Indumathi.“I now have a job in the Police as well, but football is my identity. This comes first and foremost. When you say Indumathi Kathiresan, I want you to first think of me as a footballer, and then as a Policewoman.”Indeed, in her younger days, Indumathi has had to contend with notions that the beautiful game is not for women.“I’ve always had to balance football and studies. My parents, at first, did not want me to play football, but I continued anyway. Once I started playing in the NFCs, they began to realise that I could probably do something with my footballing career,” she informed.“But convincing them became more difficult when I’d get some injuries. As it is, I used to miss a lot of exams in my college because we were playing tournaments. We used to have separate exams, and once I had to sit for two semesters’ worth of exams at the same time,” she recalled.

 

“Once I twisted a knee, and didn’t tell my parents about it. I informed them later when I went back to my village from Chennai, and instantly my mother asked me to stop playing. But I was as stubborn as they were. I threatened to run away from home if they made me stop playing football. I guess they now realise that my obsession with the game was good,” laughed Indumathi.

‘ASIAN CUP WILL BE A REAL FIGHT’